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Rent a girlfriend and take her home for Spring Festival!

Spring Festival, the most important Festival for Chinese people, is getting closer and closer, and with it, a mysterious business is catching more and more people's attention, especially "剩男" (shèngnán: "leftover men" - single men older than 27 years old attention), the business is "renting a girlfriend".
You probably have a lot of questions to ask now:
How much is it?
How does it work?
Is it fun? ......
Wow, renting a girlfriend? That's unbelievable! Maybe it won't be long before we can rent some clean air!
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Why are leftover men renting girlfriends?
During Spring Festival, Chinese people like to get together with family members and talk with each other, and ask the usual and often awkward questions:
Where are you working now?
How much money do you make per month?
Have you bought a house yet?
Do you own a car?
Do you have a girlfriend?
Why don't you have a girlfriend?
When do you plan to have a baby?
Many Chinese people do this partly because they don't have any other topics to talk about - this might be the only time a young man gets to see his family the whole year round (they don't know each other's life well enough).
One thing we have to talk about is "face" - probably the MOST IMPORTANT thing for Chinese people. If your mum is asked by your aunt if you have a girlfriend and your mum says "no", then yo momma "loses face". Your aunt or uncle is very likely to think: "You are almost 30, why don't you have a girlfriend!? No girl likes you? You are a loser!" (Which is really kind of them). Well, this is the Chinese way of thinking for far too many members of society. If you are Chinese, you have no way to avoid these kind of questions.
面子 (miànzi: face) is the MOST IMPORTANT thing for the Chinese!
While some single guys choose not to go home during Spring Festival to dodge the bullets (the canons, to put it more accurately), others choose to RENT A GIRLFRIEND to fool their parents (because Chinese parents are always asking single guys to bring a girl home to introduce to the family) to make them feel better - they will have "face" in front of other relatives.
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How do they rent a girlfriend?
You can ask one of your female friends (or colleagues) for help, which also works since many single girls also don't want to go home and be interrogated - if they can make some money by helping a friend out, why not?
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How much does it cost?
If you use an app to find your short term girlfriend, the price will vary depending on the level of attractiveness of the girl you want to rent from the apps. Some girls ask as high as 300 RMB for one hour, others may ask for 1,000 RMB for a whole day. By the way, you will have to pay for everything: tickets, food, drink, etc. If your hometown is too far away from where the girl lives, let's say, Heilongjiang province (about a 10-hour train ride from Beijing), the girls may not want to take the "job" because it is too much trouble, and TOO cold.
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What are the problems of renting a girlfriend?
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If your parents find out that you rented a "girlfriend" later, they will feel heartbroken - how can you lie to the people you care about the most?
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If your relatives find out the truth and tell your parents about it, your parents will feel humiliated and lose even more "face" - people will laugh at them behind their back.
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The "girlfriend" you rent might not give back the money (let's say 5,000RMB, on average) she got from your parents and relatives, which happens a lot in this line of work. Then you have to go through a lot of trouble to get the money back.If your relatives find out the truth and tell your parents about it, your parents will feel humiliated and lose even more "face" - people will laugh at them behind their back.
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If you and the "girlfriend" do something you were perhaps not supposed to do and she becomes pregnant because of this, you will be in a lot of trouble: she might ask you to pay for the abortion or financial support for the child.The "girlfriend" you rent might not give back the money (let's say 5,000RMB, on average) she got from your parents and relatives, which happens a lot in this line of work. Then you have to go through a lot of trouble to get the money back.If your relatives find out the truth and tell your parents about it, your parents will feel humiliated and lose even more "face" - people will laugh at them behind their back.
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When your next girlfriend finds out about this, she will very probably break up with you. They might think: what kind of loser does this?
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She might tell your relatives that you are doing pretty well in Beijing and have great influence there just to please them, then all your relatives are going to borrow money from you because they think you are rich or ask you to help them find a school in Beijing for their kids with your "influence". Faced with these problems, you will be worrying all night long as you know you are not rich and you don't have any influence back in the city you live in.
What are you going to do?
After seeing the whole article, what do you think of this idea of renting a girlfriend and taking her home for the Spring Festival?

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